I Waited 5 Days To Text For Our 2nd Date & She Seemed Mad. Did I Screw Up?
What it means when you wait 5 days to text a woman for another date & she seems mad.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a 31 year old viewer who is new to my work. He had a girl cancel an hour before their 1st date. He put her in her place and let her know it was rude. She kept the reschedule date and it went well. He waited 5 days to text for a 2nd date and she seemed mad and unfollowed him on Instagram. Their 2nd date is tonight and he’s worried he messed up by waiting 5 days. My comments are in bold italics like this below in the body of his email.
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Hi, I’m Coach Corey Wayne and this is my Video Coaching Newsletter. And the topic of today’s Newsletter is going to be, “I Waited 5 Days To Text For Our 2nd Date & She Seemed Mad. Did I Screw Up?”
Well, this emails from a guy. He’s 31, he’s new to my work, and he had a girl cancel basically an hour before their first date, because she’s at work, she’s running late. Which obviously is pretty rude. So he chastised her about it. And the late, Great Doc Love, his attitude towards this was when a woman does that at the last minute, it’s rude. And “You get one chance per girl per lifetime.” So in other words, he would have been like, she’s out. The fact that it’s last minute and then he’s texting her saying, “Hey, are we still on for 8:00?”
I’ll go through the text exchanges in a minute and she’s like, “Oh, hey, sorry, I just left work. Can we do Monday or Tuesday?” So she did offer a reschedule, but still, it’s extremely rude. But then again, what is a woman’s prerogative? Being late. So that’s obvious. So he ends up making a rescheduled date. They have it and they had a really good time. And then since this is the first time he’s applying what he’s learning in 3% Man. And he’s got like, he I think he said four other girls that he’s seeing that are chasing him, trying to get him to go out on a date. And so he waited five days. He said it was really hard. It was nerve wracking.
And I know a lot of the stuff that’s in The Book is counterintuitive, and you’re going to feel weird at times when you first start applying it, especially like doing The Kiss Test. The first time you do it, you see the girl look at your lips, you’re like, “oh shit, now I got to kiss her.” And you might not be really ready for it, or you’re surprised at how well it goes, or guys are on a date and the girl’s down to hook up and they’re like far away from their house. They don’t have any condoms with. And they just weren’t expecting it to go so well, to the point where the girls were ready to sleep with them on the first date, and then they’re just not prepared because they don’t have the logistics of sex thought ahead of time.
Ideally, you want to be ten 15 minutes away from your place, and so your third date spot that you go is going to be closer to where you are. So if it’s going real well and you guys are all over each other, you can say, “Hey, let’s get out and go back to my place and open a bottle of wine or whatever, or let’s go hop in the Jacuzzi or let’s go put a movie on.” So you got to think about those things. And then so him waiting five days was something that was a little nerve wracking. And so the stuff that’s in The Book is not set in stone. It’s a guideline. And so there’s multiple reasons why you do this.
If you wait a little bit longer, because the idea is you’re trying to go slower than the girl is, because most guys are in a rush. They get the number they’re either calling that day or the very next day to try to set a date. They come off as too eager, too anxious, and oftentimes talk women out of dating and sleeping with them. And so if you’re waiting a few days, you wait 3 to 5 days, like, say, you meet on a Friday, you get her number, and then you call her Tuesday or Wednesday or the following week to set a date.
You’re doing it because you’re giving her some space and time, and you want to see what her attitude is like. You want somebody who’s easygoing, easy to get along with. Someone who is happy to hear from you. Somebody that has the attitude of like, “hell yeah, I’d love to go out with you.” And when you call a girl or text her after five days and she’s like, “Oh, I thought you lost my number. Oh, I thought you weren’t interested.” When you hear something like that, that means that she was bummed that she didn’t hear from you.
So in other words, she likes you. Because it’s very hard for the average guy to tell if a girl is really into him or not, because they often say things that are just contradictory and they don’t make any sense. So the idea with The Book is to put stack the deck in your favor to help you vet the woman better. Because again, if you wait five days to reach out and she’s got a good attitude, that’s great. It’s good for her. But if you wait five days and she’s pissed off and she gives you a hard time, or she’s angry and she says she doesn’t want to go out with you anymore, well, that’s not flexible. That’s not easygoing, easy to get along with.
That’s a chick that’s a pain in the ass and probably insecure, because if you wait five days and you’re expecting to hear from you sooner, they can text you, they can call you, but they get mad and butthurt and angry at you. That is enough to disqualify them. Because again, you want easygoing, easy to get along with and a woman who is flexible. Because if in this case, he’d been out on one date and she cancelled literally an hour before. So you’re trying to determine what are the character is like. You don’t want to get six weeks or six months in and find out she’s a lunatic, and you want to try to find that out as quickly as possible.
And so this guy’s a little worried because he noticed that she unfollowed him on Instagram. And so he called her. She seemed a little blasé when he reached out, but she still set the date. And so when he wrote this email, that was going to be their second date. But he hasn’t written in after that, so we don’t know how well it went. Maybe after this is published, he’ll send us an email and let us know if she actually kept the date, because again, good attitude, easygoing, easy to get along with and flexible. And fourth, you want her to be nice to you. You want a girl that’s nice to you. Life is hard enough.
And there’s a lot of angry, unhappy women that are just going to be a pain in the ass all the time. And so if a chick’s constantly getting irritated with you, and you barely know her, why would you want to go any further? So let’s proceed in a way that gives her some time and space to miss you. So if she’s a good girl, has a good attitude, she’ll be happy to hear from you. But if she’s a bad girl with a bad attitude and a pain in the ass, it’s going to piss her off. And if she’s pissed off and angry because you didn’t call her a few days earlier than she might have expected, is that really easy going, easy to get along with? Is that somebody who’s flexible? Is that a girl who’s nice to you and respects you?
Or is this a girl that thinks she has the right to be abusive and be a pain in the ass? Because, again, easygoing, easy to get along with. Life is tough enough. And if you start dating a woman, that’s a pain in the ass or difficult or she’s messed up, instead of her bringing you peace in your life, she’s going to bring chaos. Feminine energy is chaos, but some women are just perpetually chaotic, perpetually bring drama, perpetually got shit going sideways in their life, and they want everybody to know about it.
So let’s go through his email and also go through the text exchange. Because he gives her like a long text, it’s kind of a lecture on what he thought about her basically canceling an hour before. And it sounds like if he had just showed up, she might have even stood him up. So he doesn’t mention how he met her. But let’s go through his email.
Viewer Email:
Happy Friday Coach!
I’m watching your videos as they come out daily and love tuning in every day.
Well, thanks for watching.
In one week I finished your 3% Man book and I’m on to the second round! Right inside the front cover I’m marking a tally for each time I read through it.
So ideally you want to get through it 10 to 15 times, because you’re trying to learn it so well you could teach a class on it. And then after you’ve gone through it, the 10 to 15 times, the best students typically go through it every six months just to kind of keep it fresh, because whatever you observe, you participate in. And so guys that stop reading the book after the 10 to 15 times if they get to that many, because most guys just don’t read it. Most guys will go through it a couple of times and then that’s it.
They don’t go back to it. They get into a relationship. They never learn the relationship skills and wisdom. And then a year or two later when they really need it, things spiral out of control because they didn’t really take the time to learn it. And then other guys that read it a lot and then get into a relationship, but never go back. And they’re constantly watching TV and media and movies. You get brainwashed again to think and act in ways that are dysfunctional and opposite of what is innate for us guys and girls.
I can’t wait to continue to solidify this champion mindset for dating! From things I’ve learned from you just over the past few weeks of videos I already have 4 or 5 girls chasing me around town trying to get me on a date. I’ve had 4 dates over the past 4 days and it almost seems too easy haha. But guess what, tonight I have a date with Jessica again. this will be our second date.
So this is after she already cancelled the date that they have right before. And so this is like they’re supposed to meet at 8.
So at Friday at 6:22 p.m., he texts and he says, 8:00 still work? And she says, Hi, I’m so sorry. I’m just leaving the office now. Can we do Monday? I’m drained.
6:22 so you’re an hour and what, 38 minutes before you’re supposed to meet? And she’s like, “oh, I’m just leaving the office.” She didn’t bother to text him and say, “hey, I can’t make it. I’m super tired. Can we push it back a little?” It’s just rude. It’s inconsiderate and it’s disrespectful. Now granted, women, most, a lot of women, I should say, are not the greatest with time, they just kind of show up late. They’re like a day late and a dollar short. But it’s really nice dating women that are punctual and respect you and respect your time. But often you date enough women you’re going to see a lot of them are like this. They’re just always perpetually late. So Friday at 8:52 p.m. he responds because he’s like, look at this going.
He’s like, really? Hour before. Hour and 38 minutes before we’re supposed to get together. “Oh, I’m just leaving work. I can’t make it.” That just sounds like she doesn’t give a shit. And so this guy wants to make sure if he’s going to actually reschedule, that she doesn’t waste his time again, because this is a Friday night. And most busy professionals. What have you got Friday night? Maybe Saturday night? Sunday. You’re doing errands. You may be getting ready for the work week. You’re probably going to bed early so you can get up early Monday morning and get after it, right. And so if you got 1 or 2 nights a week that are available to date, or see friends or family or do social things, and you’re planning on going out with a girl and you told your buddies that, hey, I got a date Friday, and then an hour, an hour and 38 minutes before she’s like, “yeah, can’t make it.
No, I’m I’m just leaving work. I’m drained.” Just totally doesn’t respect him or his time at all. So that’s a major red flag. It’s not a good way to start dating, but we don’t know how he met her. Maybe he met her online. If he met her online. This is kind of common, because it’s, what do you know? You don’t know her. She doesn’t know you. I mean, at the end of the day, there’s more dudes on dating apps than there are girls. And so women have all the leverage. And if you’re going to play in that arena, you’re just going to get a high incidence of these kinds of things. That’s why it’s so much better to meet women as a side effect to having a great social life in person.
Especially if you meet them through mutual friends or acquaintances or your social circle or your coworkers or whatever. Because then they know people that know you, and if they jerk you around, people close to them are going to be like, hey, I set you up with Bob. I introduced you, and then you stand them up for a date? I, vouched for you. It’s like, what the fuck are you doing? You better call him and apologize and make it up to him. That’s what typically happens. But if it’s online dating, it’s like she doesn’t know this guy. Who cares? There’s probably ten other dudes behind him that she’s willing to go out with. So they tend to have the leverage and most guys let them get away with it.
So he says, No worries, I’m busy for the next few days, maybe sometime next week.
So Sunday at 2:25 she says Okay, just let me know.
And then so he says, As of now, Thursday or Friday night, I’m open. Choose wisely. I don’t do last minute cancellations twice.
So. Oh, let me back up because this text exchanges. So she made the date looks good Friday.
He says.
I know you’re probably at work now. Give me a ring back when you can. That’s 10:44 a.m.
Friday. 3:21 she says.
Hey, sorry I’ve been slammed with work.
Friday 4:47. He says.
No sweat. Been crazy here as well. She doesn’t reply. And then an hour and a half later, that’s when he says 8:00 still work?
And she says,
Oh, sorry.
So he’s doing a lot of texting and he shouldn’t be having to do this, but maybe he didn’t have a lot of rapport with her, and he was worried that she was going to dip or cancel on him.
As of now, Thursday or Friday night, I’m open. Choose wisely. I don’t do last minute cancellations twice.
And so she writes like four messages back. She says I guess it wasn’t. No worries lol. Someone suddenly left the team. That helped my role a lot that day so it was long and sudden. Remember, the bigger, the longer the excuse, the bigger the lie.
If you were upset, you could have communicated that you didn’t like the last minute cancellation.
So again, him saying, hey, no worries, he should have said, well that’s kind of rude. It’s, you know, an hour before we’re supposed to meet. But again, he’s texting her back and forth. It doesn’t look like he really had a definite date set with her. Or maybe he was fearful she wasn’t going to keep it. So he’s texting too much because he’s worried she’s not going to go out with him. And maybe she picked up on that. And again, it’s clear throughout the day on Friday as he’s trying to text her, she’s going several hours before replying and just saying she slammed at work. It’s almost like she’s kind of dismissive. Like treating him like he’s a gnat. Like, go away, go away! Gnat. I’m busy.
If you were upset, you could have communicated that you didn’t like the last minute cancellation, and I would have given more context. Instead of making a weird passive comment, insinuating it’s in my character to do it multiple times. Take care.
Take care. Usually when a woman says that, it’s like, have a nice life.
Passive and weird. I’m communicative and direct. I’m directly saying that I won’t do it twice. Canceling one hour beforehand is behavior I have no interest in, so I’m communicating that no. Imagine if I was tired and getting drained at work. Wouldn’t you appreciate and respect me? Letting you know ahead of time that I can’t make it. Not while I knew you were getting ready to leave the house with nothing communicated. At the end of the day, if you aren’t interested or just are or seeing someone else. That’s totally okay. That’s what it came off as. Just let me know. Let’s do Thursday. Don’t be grumpy. I was just I was trying to see if I could make it, but the day got worse and worse.
Again, a lot of women are just they suck with time and time management, but it’s still fucking rude. Would she do that to her parents? To her dad? Would she do that to her doctor when she shows up or doesn’t show up? I mean, sometimes it’s like, I know like my phone sessions. It’s like people are paying to reserve an hour of my time in advance. They have to give me four business days notice in order to change the appointment. Just because I’m dealing with people that are on the other side of the globe. And sometimes I might not hear back from them for 24 hours because when we’re awake, they’re asleep and then vice versa.
And so it might take 3 or 4 days just to get somebody on the other side of the world into those time slots. And so for whatever reason, if the guy doesn’t show up to his phone sessions, I still get paid, because again, you’re paying to reserve an hour of my time in advance, and it’s made very clear everybody agrees to it before the appointment gets on my calendar. And if they don’t show up, well, that’s on them. So they know what the deal is. And if they don’t like it, well, they can always get somebody else to coach them, because my time is valuable and I’ve got a limited number of spaces per week to fit people in.
And therefore, you know, when I first started, I would let people slide, but it just got to the point like early on, it’s like people would totally waste your time and not give a shit. “Oh, hey, sorry, I can’t make it.” Like you call them up. “Oh, I’m sorry I couldn’t make it. Hey, let’s reschedule.” And they just blow you off. And then once I instituted that policy, it pretty much it stopped it. It was no longer an issue. They would keep it. So if you don’t respect yourself and your time, then nobody else will either. And so it’s good that he stood up for himself and put her in her place. But you know, she’s kind of making excuses for her behavior. Well, you said no worries. And so she’s calling him out on it, but it was rude. And so the conversation needed to be had.
To give an update of what went down after the text exchange from above and from our first date.
So this is him describing what they did on the first date.
We went out to Delray Downtown and had an absolute blast. I could see she was heavily into me the moment we sat next to each other.
I’m pretty sure he met her through online dating because he lives in Fort Lauderdale. She lives in Delray, which is about 30 to 45 minutes, depending on traffic on a drive. And I guess she lives north of Delray, about a half hour away. So she’s probably coming from like North Palm Beach or maybe in Port Saint Lucie or maybe Jupiter area. So that tells me he probably met her on online dating.
We went out to Delray Downtown and had an absolute blast. I could see she was heavily into me the moment we sat next to each other. constantly touching me and leaning into me and she was the one trying to ask me all the questions haha. It’s almost like we were battling each other for who could ask the most questions haha.
So it sounds like she’s a little masculine too. Because I’ve dated women that are kind of like this. They’re very pushy. They’re very masculine. When you try to ask them questions, they’ll give you a short answer, then turn it around and try to run the conversation. And that’s usually the chicks that are professionals. Boss girl energy, because they’re just used to being in their masculine to compete in a man’s world. And women that do that, a lot of them have a hard time kind of taking that masculine armor off, and then in being feminine and girly and letting go.
I could tell there was some huge attractions here. Anyways, we had a fuckin blast and went from one place to the next and played darts after at another spot. We ended up hugging, touching and making out on several occasions and said goodbye later on. She had to drive 30 minutes north and I drove 30 min south back down to Fort Lauderdale otherwise I would have proposed a little “Hulu and hang” action at my place. So after the date I did not message her and she ended up messaging me the next day “I had a good time last night, thank you” Which I responded 3 hours later with “Smiling from ear to ear on my drive home. Next time you’re getting your butt whooped in darts”. She then sent a text screenshot of what her dad said to her when she saw in her location that she was at a dive bar so late at night that night haha. busted. I’ll attach below this.
So let me see, because I got dad’s message too. So this is, uh, dad to her.
He says,
Why were you at a dive bar that late on a work night? That’s unlike you.
I was on a date. I’m 26 years old, daddy. Location is for emergencies. We were playing darts.
Is he Christian? Did you win?
She says.
Catholic. And yes,
He says.
That’s my girl.
So maybe she’s got a good relationship with her dad. I mean, the fact dad’s checking up on her and seeing where she’s at and what she’s doing, that’s a good sign. Girls that have a good relationship with their father, and they love their dad and they respect their dad are usually pretty easygoing, easy to get along with. But it’s still early. We don’t know. We don’t know.
Anyways, I didn’t really continue going back and forth with her texting so I planned to message her in a few days and wait an entire 5 days to get back to her. Wow was that fuckin tough. around day 4 I had a pit in my chest wondering if this was way too long to reach out.
Yeah, first few times you do it, you’re like, ah, because you’re obviously a good dude. But remember, this is a girl that blew you off an hour before you’re supposed to reach out, and we’re vetting her to see, “what is her attitude like?” Is she easy going, easy to get along with? Is she flexible? Is she nice to you, or is she a hothead? Insecure, pain in the ass, is going to make your life hell.
And guess what. it was haha. I noticed on Instagram that she had unfollowed me on day 4 after having watched my stories for all those days I never reached out to her.
It’s not that it waited too long. What does that tell you? She unfollows you after four days. That means she got mad. Why’d she get mad? Because she cared. She liked you. But that’s kind of immature. After four days, she’s like, oh, he’s not going to call me, so screw him, I’m unfollowing him. So that also tells us that she likes him. And so it’s not that it was too long. Again, you do this on purpose because her whole reaction when you finally do reach out is what you’re really looking for and why you do it. Because again, you don’t want to be dating lunatics. If you don’t believe me, then just do it your way. And you know you want to reinvent the wheel. I mean, you’re brand new to this.
I’ve been teaching this shit for 20 years and taught it to tens of thousands of people all over the world that I’ve done phone sessions with and answered their emails. And so you see the same patterns over and over, because an insecure girl is going to be really mad. She’s going to be really butthurt, and she’ll be angry when you call her. If that’s her attitude, that’s not someone that’s nice to you. That’s somebody that’s insecure and a pain in the ass. If a girl gets upset after just five, Doc Love’s rule was 5 to 9 days you wait. Because again, you’re trying to vet for is if she got a good attitude? Is she flexible?
If she blows her top because she feels like you waited too many days again, she could have texted you, she could have reached out to you. But this is the first time this guy has done it. And you can tell already he’s scared of her. And what I saw in his first email is that he’s 31. He’s always been single. It sounds like he’s only had short term relationships. And so he’s one of those guys that’s great for the first 3 or 4 weeks. And then after that he talks, texts and turns the women off to the point where they don’t want to date him anymore. So obviously his approach has not been working. That’s why he’s here. People don’t come to me when things are going well. People come to me when shit’s going sideways.
She must have thought I wasn’t interested so got angry?
Yep.
I don’t know what are your thoughts?
I was like, yeah, she got a little angry, but this is the important part. This is what really matters. We don’t really give a shit if she gets angry, but we do care about how she treats us. Even though she’s angry. Is she biting her lip? Is she losing her cool? Or is she be being nice and sweet? A girl that has a good relationship with her dad. She might get upset and feel like he doesn’t care, but at the end of the day, she’s happy to hear from him. A girl with daddy issues is going to be pissed off and mad and angry and seek to punish you. And that’s what we’re trying to avoid is those women and weed them out. So there’s a method to the madness here.
The next morning on day 5 I called her early morning when I knew she was on her way into work… Ring ring… Hello? (Her not sounding excited, playing it cool.) Heyyyy how’s your morning? Are you driving?
Her: No I’m at work early to work on some things. What’s up?
I can tell her ego’s a little roughed up.
Ohh ok got it. Well just wanted to say I had a great time seeing you last week and would love to see you again.
Again, this was just last week. You do one date per week, just like the book says, where you initiate. There’s a reason you take measured steps. You’re trying to weed out the lunatics. If you don’t believe me, then do it your way. And then the problem is you don’t find out she’s a lunatic till 2 or 3 months in. And then if you’re. Goo Goo Gaga over her, even once you find out she’s a lunatic, you’ll put up with it because you’re emotionally invested at that point. I want you to find out really quickly if she’s nuts, so you can move on before you get emotionally attached. It’s a lot harder to get over heartbreak, and if you’re three, four months down the road and you find out she’s nuts, you’ll probably stay with her six months to a year, especially if she’s hot and the pussy’s good.
What’s your schedule tail end of the week?
Her: I liked seeing you too! Let me get back to you my schedule and let you know.
Okay awesome. have a great day of the week.
Her: Thanks you too.
So this is the point where you give to her because again, guys that aren’t used to this will. “Oh my God, I gotta wait for her to get back to me.” Again, we’re making it easy for her to follow through on what she says, which is that she’s going to check her schedule and get back, or to flake out and disappear from his life forever. So if she never responds or never reaches out, then you delete the number because you want to make sure she’s into you. A girl really likes you will make the effort. If she doesn’t care, she’ll dip. Remember, this is a girl that canceled an hour before the date.
And yet still, this guy felt guilty about waiting five days and he’s second guessing himself. Oh, I don’t want to do that again. I don’t want to upset her. She might get mad at me. Good. We want her to get mad because we want to see how she operates, as quickly as possible. If you follow what’s in The Book, it’ll bring out the best and the best and the worst and the worst. And if you haven’t read it, if you’re new here UnderstandingRelationships.com just subscribe to the email newsletter and The Book will open right up in your web browser and you can start reading. You don’t have to spend any money you try before you buy. She then messaged me a few hours later and let me know she’s open Friday or Saturday, which now.
So then she messaged me a few hours later and let me know she’s open Friday or Saturday. Which now tonight I have plans to pick her up and take her bowling! I’m super pumped.
So what do we learn? Flexible. Easygoing. Easy to get along with. She got upset that he waited five days because she assumed he didn’t like her, and that’s why she unfollowed him. But when he reached out, she was glad to hear from him. And she had a good attitude. She didn’t get mad. She didn’t get butthurt. She didn’t blow her top. So that’s good for her. She’s redeeming herself. But again, it’s still early. This is only the second date, and I haven’t seen an email from him to give us an us an update if she actually kept it. Because if she cancels at the last minute for a BS reason, then she’s definitely out. But if it goes well, since he’s picking her up, he’s probably going to be Boop boop boop boop boop boop.
The Question I had was this Coach — I feel like I shouldn’t have waited the entire 5 days so structurally like that.
Yes, you should have. Again, Doc Love was 5 to 9 days. Can you imagine waiting nine days? But she had a good attitude. That’s what we’re trying to determine. Trying to weed out the lunatics. Especially if you’re doing online dating. There’s going to be a lot more girls on there that tend to be nutty versus the ones you meet in person.
She clearly was turned off by that amount of time going by.
She was she wasn’t turned off because she still set a date with you. She was upset, which means that she cares. And again, that’s what we’re trying to determine. We don’t want a time waster. We don’t want a girl that just wants to go out so we can fill her belly up with food and drink, and then get a peck on the cheek.
There’s some serious high attraction here so I believe after tonight I will just wait maybe 3 or so days.
Well, again, it’s not etched in stone, but we do it for a reason. We’re trying to determine our character, and we’re trying to identify the lunatics and the girls that are going to make our lives hell so we can get the fuck rid of them and find somebody who’s easy going, easy to get along with and who’s nice to you.
There’s some serious high attraction here so I believe after tonight I will just wait maybe 3 or so days and reach back out to set up another. What are your thoughts?
Blessings,
Bob
Well, you being scared of a woman that is your problem. That’s why you’ve never had a girlfriend and never been in a relationship. Because you’re afraid to upset them and you’re starting to take your power back. And it’s kind of scary because you’ve always been too soft and squishy with the ladies. And that’s why you’re one of those guys that gets maybe 3 or 4 weeks and you get dumped. Now the tables are turned and all the power is on your side of the of the table where it belongs. Because men are supposed to be the leader.
It’s our job to lead the interaction. You’re the one with the penis. You penetrate her with your strength, not the other way around. Unless you’re one of those dudes that likes the chick to give it to you with a strap on. It’s like whatever. Different strokes for different folks. I don’t judge here. I’m just here to help you get what you want. Stack the deck in your favor so you have the best experiences, and you can avoid the Froot Loops and identify them as quickly as possible.
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